But lemme guess, you still had a nice day didn't you?
I bet you still had a lovely day. Some people hate being single. Especially on V day. But, in the grand scheme of things, is it all that bad?
People want relationships for a whole load of reasons.
They want to feel loved;
They want to fuck someone;
They want to feel special and be treated, just to name a few.
But all they really want, is a time to remember.
Think of life as a Football game. Lots of chasing things around, going for glory, and then eventually losing possession. It has good, bad, and meaningless events happening at all times.But at the end of the day, when Match of The Day is on, all you ever want to see is the highlights.
And when you are on your deathbed, that is all you will want to remember. The highlights.
I mean, come on, no one ever queued for a flat rollercoaste
r.Relationships are highlights. They are times you remember, because they involve people that you will remember. But they are not the only highlights.
Take a nostalgic look into your life, and think about the highlights. (Easy way to do this, is by looking at your old myspace profile, or checking your first ever Facebook profile pic, or message.)
Now, for me, when I look back, I see that the most highlights I've had have been with my friends. Not with my girlfriends.
Don't get me wrong, I've had some great time with my girlfriends, and I wouldn't swap those memories for the world. But my friends are the most important.
What I'm trying to say is, friends are the people you should try and show you love on V day.
I got lucky cuz my girlfriend is one of my best friends.
If you still wish you were loved yesterday, then remember you will always have your family.
If you wanted a fuck yesterday, then be forward about it. Someone will say yes.
And if you wanted to feel special yesterday, then I'm am happy to say that your day will come. You will get married. You will have kids. You will love unconditionally.
Just wait.
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