Disclaimer: This is from a boy's point of view.
Anyone who has been in a relationship will have probably lived through this.
In a female-male relationship.
Going well.
Infatuated/in love with each other.
Have an misunderstanding.
Female gets quite annoyed at something.
Male tries to cheer her up.
Male: "How are you?"
Female: "I'm fine!"
NO YOUR NOT FUCKIN FINE.
Or are you?
Other halves across the world use this phrase, and a lot of men get annoyed at it.
But I've realised, that actually they are telling the truth. It's just neither us nor them know it.
If I girl was truly not "fine" with a relationship, she would say something about it. Things would break down, and you will probably see it coming from a mile off, if you don't blind yourself with love.
The fact is, that relationships cannot be healthy without a few arguments along the way.
If everyone was content with their relationship, then it'd be the most boring fucking thing ever. So if we argue, it is because we expect things to get better. Which is good!
Giving each other high standards in a relationship means you are both likely to get mroe out of it.
So, when your girl, or guy, says that they're "fine," well then you both probably are. You both just don't realise it yet. Kinda ironic, in a way.
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