I used to love Sex-Ed at school. It was always the best lesson as I basically just pissed around making dick jokes.
I knew all the stuff they were trying to tell me anyway, as at the end of the day, all anyone ever learnt from Sex Ed was to wear a condom.
Wearing a condom cured all problems in sex according to my shitty teachers.
Such bullshit.
We learnt the wrong thing's in school about sex. The only useful thing I learn't was how to put a condom on my dick. Once that things on, I'm now invincible from getting a girl preggers and AID's. Job done.
But we never learnt about the mental effects of sex. The effect it has on our emotional health.
Sexual health is much more than just avoiding pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.
Being sexually healthy is about emotional development, respect and understanding for you and being able to make the right choices. People should be able to make the right choices that make them feel comfortable without fear of intimidation, or hurt others.
Sex is a beautiful thing in strong relationships. It's intimate and fun and brings 2 people together like no thing can. Once you are comfortable with that person and your sex life, you can have so much fun. It's enjoyable, feel's amazing and can bring out your kinkiest instincts. All of which are confidence-building
However I'm not saying that sex outside of relationships is a bad thing. It can be fun and sexy, and we all want it every now and then. You just have to make sure that you have the right mindset, that it is all you want, and not a cry for help.
I've seen so many girls, and boys, go and sleep around because they are just looking for someone to love them. Sex isn't love. And having sex with someone will not make them love you.
And having sex with someone to try and block out certain feelings is also a recipe for disaster
It has the ability to mess your head up, big time.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, sex is amazing. You just have to do it in the right way.....
....doggy.
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ReplyDeleteOn a scientific front, sex is different to girls and boys.
ReplyDeleteWhen girls have sex, a whole bunch of "love" hormones are released, and they feel a huge wave of adoration to the man they just did the dirty with. This, coupled with pride/shame, and a commitment to making things work, can cause a huge wave of unrequieted infatution in a girl.
Boys on the other hand, just get an ego-boost, with a side helping of dickheadedness. They will actually lose respect for a girl, as they think they are easy.
Girls: If you want a guy to like you, then make him wait. If he gets pissy cuz he isnt gettin any action, then he's only after one thing.
Guy's: Don't take advantage of lonely girls. It affects their heads much more than ours, so try and be careful. So called "sluts" may seem to be after only sex, but deep down they are most likely only doing it cuz theyre lonely.